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Reflections On The Evolution of Child Arrangement Orders

Family Law has witnessed significant changes over the past decade, especially concerning fathers’ applications for contact, to spend time with or to care for their children. In this comprehensive analysis, I shall reflect on the outcomes of fathers’ contact applications made ten years ago with those today. These changes have been driven by evolving societal norms, legal reforms, and a growing recognition of the importance of fathers’ involvement in their children’s lives.

Shifting Legal Framework

Ten years ago, fathers often faced an uphill battle when seeking contact with their children, as courts tended to favour the mother’s position; if not in reality, certainly in the eyes of the fathers.   That said,  recent legal reforms seem genuinely to appreciate the necessity to prioritise the children’s best interests, emphasising the benefits of shared parenting and the important role both parents play in their children’s lives.  For this reason, courts today seem more inclined to consider fathers’ applications for contact on an equal footing with mothers, leading to more equitable outcomes.

Changing Societal Attitudes

Societal attitudes toward fathers’ roles in parenting have evolved significantly over the past decade. Fathers are now seen as vital contributors to their children’s emotional and social development and these changes are often reflected in increased support for the rights of the father in Family Court applications for Child Arrangements Orders.  The shift in perspective has had a profound impact on court decisions, with judges more likely to grant fathers meaningful contact with their children to foster healthy parent-child relationships.

The Rise of Mediation and Alternative Dispute Resolution

Ten years ago, court battles were often the norm in child contact disputes. However, today’s emphasis on less adversarial resolutions, such as mediation and collaborative law, has created opportunities for fathers to resolve their differences with the mother more amicably, which bodes extremely well for their ongoing relationship as co-parents.  Alternative Dispute Resolution approaches prioritise cooperative parenting, which often results in more mutually agreeable contact arrangements, ultimately benefiting the children.  If court proceedings are inevitable, the availability of arbitration, usually before a judge or senior barrister, will ensure an early hearing, the outcome of which is binding.

Technological Advancements

I have observed that the last decade has seen significant technological advancements, which have transformed how fathers interact with their children. Indirect, video contact for example, allows fathers to maintain contact even when living at a distance, or on days other than when personal contact is scheduled. Courts, without question, increasingly recognise the importance of incorporating technology into contact arrangements, ensuring fathers can maintain meaningful connections with their children.

Fathers’ Rights Advocacy

The rise of fathers’ rights advocacy groups, albeit latterly less vocal has played a pivotal role in shaping the outcomes of contact applications. These groups appear to have been instrumental in raising awareness about the challenges fathers face in Family Law cases; they have pushed for legal reforms that support equal parenting rights, thus, raising the status of the father in their children’s lives. Today, fathers have more resources and support networks to help them navigate the complexities of contact applications, leading to better outcomes for both fathers and their children.

Parental Alienation  – a modern concept?

Parental alienation is described as being where one parent attempts to disrupt the child’s relationship with the other parent.  Historically referred to as implacable hostility, is now fully understood and recognised by Family Courts.  Of course, there are often very legitimate reasons to deny contact, all to be tested by the courts, always with a focus on an outcome which is in the child’s best interests.

Ten years ago, fathers often struggled to prove cases of alienation, although as the years have progressed, in recognition of the importance of the father’s role in their children’s lives, the courts have become more willing to consider options to ensure that he is involved. Judges appear more vigilant in identifying and addressing alienation, enabling the children to maintain healthy relationships with both parents.

The Impact of COVID-19

The COVID-19 pandemic introduced new challenges and opportunities for fathers seeking contact with their children. While lockdowns and restrictions initially disrupted contact schedules, courts adapted swiftly to accommodate virtual hearings and contact, and made provisions for missed time.

Today, courts are more experienced in handling these issues, ensuring that fathers can continue to have contact with their children even during challenging times.


Over the past decade, fathers’ applications for contact with their children have experienced significant improvement. Legal reforms, changing societal attitudes, alternative dispute resolution methods, and technological advancements have all contributed to a more equitable landscape for fathers in family law cases.

While challenges remain, it is clear that fathers today have a better chance of securing meaningful contact with their children compared to a decade ago. As we move forward, the emphasis on the child’s best interests and the importance of both parents in a child’s life will continue to shape family law outcomes, ensuring a brighter future for fathers and their children alike.

Whilst having referred to ‘fathers’ throughout this article, the term is used as shorthand for the non-residential parent.

Donna Goodsell

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