Attending family court for the first time can feel daunting and uncertain, particularly during an already emotional and stressful period. Many people are unsure what to expect, who will be present and whether any important decisions will be made at the first hearing. The formal nature of court proceedings can feel intimidating, especially for those who have never been involved in legal proceedings before.
Understanding the purpose of the hearing and how the process works can help reduce anxiety and allow you to approach the day with greater confidence and clarity. Knowing what is likely to happen can also help you feel more prepared and focused on the issues that need to be resolved.
What Is The Purpose Of The First Hearing
The first hearing is usually an opportunity for the court to understand the issues in dispute and consider how the case should progress. The hearing is usually not concerned with making final decisions immediately. Instead, the court will focus on identifying the key concerns, exploring whether agreement can be reached and deciding what further information may be required.
The type of hearing will depend on the nature of the case. For matters concerning private law children disputes between former partners, the first hearing is called a First Hearing Dispute Resolution Appointment (FHDRA) and focuses on issues such as where the children will live and how much time they will spend with each parent. The court’s aim at this early stage is to encourage constructive progress and ensure that the case is managed fairly and efficiently from the outset.
Who Will Be Present
The hearing will usually take place before a judge or magistrates. Both parties are expected to attend, together with their legal representatives, if they have them. A representative from CAFCASS (Court and Family Advisory Service) may also be present and already have written a ‘safeguarding letter’ to provide information about the child’s welfare and any safeguarding concerns.
Family court hearings are generally held in private rather than in open court, which helps protect the confidentiality of the family involved. This will reassure those who are concerned about discussing personal matters in a formal setting.
What Happens During The Hearing
At the hearing, each party or their solicitor will have an opportunity to explain their position and outline the issues that need to be resolved. The judge may ask questions to better understand the circumstances and assess whether any immediate decisions are required.
The court will often encourage constructive discussion and may explore whether agreement can immediately be reached on some or all the issues. Even partial agreement can help narrow the matters in dispute and reduce the need for further hearings.
If matters cannot be resolved, the court will usually make directions for the next stage of the case. This can include ordering statements, a Section 7 Report from CAFCASS or other professionals, or listing further hearings to consider outstanding issues in more detail.
Will A Final Decision Be Made
In some straightforward cases, agreement may be reached and approved by the court at the first hearing. However, where matters are more complex or there is significant disagreement, the first hearing is unlikely to result in a final decision.
Instead, the court will focus on managing the case and ensuring that the necessary evidence and information is obtained before any final determination is made. This helps ensure that any decisions reached are fair, informed and in the best interests of those involved.
Preparation Preparation Preparation
It is important to arrive prepared, with all relevant documents and a clear understanding of the issues you wish to raise. Remaining calm and focused can help proceedings run more smoothly, even where emotions are understandably high.
Obtaining legal advice beforehand will also help you understand what to expect, prepare any necessary information and ensure that your position is properly presented to the court. Feeling prepared will make the process less overwhelming and help you approach the hearing with greater confidence.
How We Can Help
Donna Goodsell states that attending family court for the first time can feel overwhelming, particularly where important issues concerning children are involved. Taking early legal advice can help you understand the process, prepare effectively and approach the hearing with greater confidence, and clarity.
At Goodsells Family Law we provide clear and practical advice to guide clients through every stage of family court proceedings, ensuring that your position is properly represented and that we achieve a fair and workable outcome.
How To Get In Contact
Contact us at Goodsells Family Law to discuss your situation and obtain tailored advice. Call us on 020 7622 2221 or email us at enquiries@goodsellssolicitors.co.uk.

